Why Every Day Is Not Valentine’s Day, And Why That’s Ok

You ask yourself if you have the courage to love someone without losing yourself. You ask yourself if you care enough for someone to allow them to live in their truth, even when their truth is an inconvenience or you hate their decision. You stand tall and say, “This is me. I am not perfect. I am not beautiful all the time. And even though I might hate where you are right now, I love you through this”. And most of all, you make sure that you are loving yourself enough first.

I’m Tired, And Responding To My Depression

This is a spontaneous post. I had been waiting on writing another post, waiting to write a “Marriage Update” post, where I could talk about how we talked it out and everything was all like “Valentine’s Day is every day!” like corny people say, bleh. Don’t worry, talk we did. But we are still processing.Continue reading “I’m Tired, And Responding To My Depression”

How To Be Happy Series Part 2: Setting Boundaries You Can Actually Keep

Hello gorgeous person! So this post is for sure one of the hardest I’ve had to write. While opening up and being vulnerable has it’s challenges, that tends to come pretty naturally to me. Boundaries on the other hand…not so much. It’s literally taken me years to become a mediocre boundary setter but I’m gettingContinue reading “How To Be Happy Series Part 2: Setting Boundaries You Can Actually Keep”

Farm Life Update: FINALLY Getting Used To The Farm & Marriage Conundrums

It’s 10:58pm and my 8 year old daughter is sitting next to me on her tablet. I should tell her to go to sleep but I don’t really want to risk waking up the baby and anyways what are summers for, right? I feel a new kind of exhausted with all 4 kids home onContinue reading “Farm Life Update: FINALLY Getting Used To The Farm & Marriage Conundrums”

How To Be Happy Series Part 1: Getting Clear On Your Desires

Hey lovelies, so while baby ‘Liano is already 3 months, I still don’t feel as settled in as I expected to be by this point. Things are quite different compared to when I had my daughters. Is it a boy thing? When I had my daughters I remember feeling so self assured, like I hadContinue reading “How To Be Happy Series Part 1: Getting Clear On Your Desires”