The Portland Save-cation And Asking My Husband If He Wants A Divorce

Portland is one of my favorite weekend getaway spots. Luckily my husband thought that we needed time away from the house and decided to take us there for a weekend. We left the older kids with his sister and just took the dogs and the baby. It was definitely just what the doctor ordered. AsContinue reading “The Portland Save-cation And Asking My Husband If He Wants A Divorce”

Why Every Day Is Not Valentine’s Day, And Why That’s Ok

You ask yourself if you have the courage to love someone without losing yourself. You ask yourself if you care enough for someone to allow them to live in their truth, even when their truth is an inconvenience or you hate their decision. You stand tall and say, “This is me. I am not perfect. I am not beautiful all the time. And even though I might hate where you are right now, I love you through this”. And most of all, you make sure that you are loving yourself enough first.

Farm Life Update: FINALLY Getting Used To The Farm & Marriage Conundrums

It’s 10:58pm and my 8 year old daughter is sitting next to me on her tablet. I should tell her to go to sleep but I don’t really want to risk waking up the baby and anyways what are summers for, right? I feel a new kind of exhausted with all 4 kids home onContinue reading “Farm Life Update: FINALLY Getting Used To The Farm & Marriage Conundrums”

Mom Confession- I’m afraid having another child will destroy my marriage

Hi all! So it’s been a few weeks and I’m happy to say our papicitos was born and is home healthy and happy. I spend my days trying to keep the house tidy, keep up on the needs of the older kids who are AMAZING helpers, hopefully make dinner, and mostly carry him in myContinue reading “Mom Confession- I’m afraid having another child will destroy my marriage”

Bae not doing enough for you? The ONE thing you need to ask yourself

Art night with the kids. I attempted to recreate an art piece I saw at Goodwill that I had wanted to buy but didn’t. Art is so therapeutic. Hello Gorgeous One😍. Hope you’ve found your day inspirational! So anyway, I’ve had the idea for this post for awhile but the words just hadn’t come toContinue reading “Bae not doing enough for you? The ONE thing you need to ask yourself”

I told my husband I didnt want the baby- how I sought help

Happy Friday guys! I hope you’ve had a fulfilling week and are ready for some relaxation, or if this isn’t your Friday, I hope work is going well and you haven’t had any shit heads cramping your style lol. I want to get this blog up to date on my life so we can getContinue reading “I told my husband I didnt want the baby- how I sought help”

Where I’ve been…and divorcing over pygmy goats??

Long time no talk… I seriously didn’t mean to be gone this long. I actually truly missed my 60 or so readers that I get every month lol. I can’t wait to look back on this post in a year or so and see how much this blog has (hopefully!) grown. Even though I don’tContinue reading “Where I’ve been…and divorcing over pygmy goats??”

Making a marriage work when you have no idea what you’re doing. PLUS! The BEST Relationship Gurus to follow on YouTube!

Just to be clear, I don’t want you (or anyone!) to just make it work. I want you to be happy in your relationship. And sometimes that’s not easy, especially if you didn’t have the best relationship role models growing up. In my last post I said I would talk about why being at my best inContinue reading “Making a marriage work when you have no idea what you’re doing. PLUS! The BEST Relationship Gurus to follow on YouTube!”